In over two decades in ministry, I’ve noticed this question doesn’t get asked enough. Many believe spiritual leaders always have it together, but the stark reality is, we don’t. A brief Google search reveals unsettling statistics about the state of pastoral wellbeing. High rates of burnout, depression, anxiety, and moral failures underscore the battle at hand. Quoting statistics is one thing, living them is another. Personally, I’ve grappled with extreme burnout, depression, and anxiety. I’ve felt alone and overwhelmed, stretched thin between church commitments and family. I’ve faced transitions and the uncertainty and fear they bring.